Three Kinds of Self-Training

I break it down into three areas in my own work. Self-motivation. Self-discipline. Self-reinforcement.

And I add three more:

Self-preparation, meaning our interior rehearsals for various emergencies. Self-belief, meaning confidence born either of an objective assessment of our talent or a wholly subjective conception of the force of our dream. And self-command, which arises from the prior five practices.

What form does this self-training take?

It’s talk. Self-talk. Interior conversations between you-and-me and ourselves.

An example: I’m in a situation right now where, for reasons I can’t talk about, I’m not able to publish stuff I’ve already written. I’ve got two books ready to go. But I can’t do anything with them, at least for the moment.

Here’s my self-talk addressing this situation (which covers all six of the categories above):

Steve, an external event beyond your control has broken your normal rhythm of production. The temptation now is to slack off. The voice of Resistance in your head will tell you to “take it easy” or “explore new possibilities.” You will feel like, “Hey, I’ve done my bit, let me back off for a minute until we can get on track again with our normal work rhythm.”

In other words, I’m assessing the situation—internal as well as external—for myself the same way a professional coach or trainer would do it if I had one.

What you must do now, Steve, is the opposite of what Resistance wants you to do. You must elevate your intensity. Pick the next project and plunge in with the same level of concentration (or higher) as if there had been no external interruption. 

Instead of relaxing, even a little, increase your level of exertion. Put your head down and work. 

Things now are NOT normal. They are harder. They are an insidious form of emergency. Treat this moment that way.

That’s training. That’s self-training.

DO THE WORK

Steve shows you the predictable Resistance points that every writer hits in a work-in-progress and then shows you how to deal with each one of these sticking points. This book shows you how to keep going with your work.

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THE AUTHENTIC SWING

A short book about the writing of a first novel: for Steve, The Legend of Bagger Vance. Having failed with three earlier attempts at novels, here's how Steve finally succeeded.

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NOBODY WANTS TO READ YOUR SH*T

Steve shares his "lessons learned" from the trenches of the five different writing careers—advertising, screenwriting, fiction, nonfiction, and self-help. This is tradecraft. An MFA in Writing in 197 pages.

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TURNING PRO

Amateurs have amateur habits. Pros have pro habits. When we turn pro, we give up the comfortable life but we find our power. Steve answers the question, "How do we overcome Resistance?"

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5 Comments

  1. Mikey on July 22, 2026 at 1:55 am

    Indeed, this grabbed my attention as soon as I saw it and when I read it in Steven’s voice. I knew he was right and I had to “do the work.”

  2. Peter Brockwell on July 22, 2026 at 2:03 am

    Steve,
    Forgive me if I’ve been inattentive, but do you and Diana intend to sell signed/premium HBs of The Arcadian? I can’t recall what you’ve said. I’m in the UK, but if that’s the intention then I am all-in for that.

    Best regards,
    Peter

  3. Jackie on July 22, 2026 at 2:42 am

    As always, thanks, Coach.

  4. Alex on July 22, 2026 at 2:53 am

    Thanks Steven, really needed this!

  5. Kevin Kermes on July 22, 2026 at 3:04 am

    Having just finished “Turning Pro,” this was the perfect reminder.
    The work continues.
    Thanks, Steven.

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